Happiness – A Skill That You Should Master
In our society, we have a myth that happiness is something that you get when you make sacrifices. However, the world that we are living in does not need your sacrifice or perfection. In the book, “Becoming Flawesome”, Kristina Mand-Lakhiani showcases how the world truly wants you to be happy. Ultimately, it is only by being the happiest you can benefit society. Happiness comes from within and is an art anyone can master.
Usually, we associate happiness with perfection. We believe that true happiness will only be used when things are perfect. However, the reality is that things are perfect because we are happy. In this blog, we will be talking about this in detail.
Happiness Does Not Need Perfection
One thing that we misunderstand is that happiness needs perfection. However, it is not true at all. When we associate happiness with perfection, we limit our true happiness. When we associate happiness with perfection, it will impact it largely. Associating happiness with perfection adds numerous terms and conditions. There must be a lot of pointers that need to be checked for perfection. Hence, we never get the time to be happy ultimately.
In addition, we tend to chase something continuously. For example, if we get this, we will be happy. If we get that, we will be happy. But continuously associating ourselves with bigger goals is our tendency. Hence, once we achieve something, we start chasing the next instead of appreciating the moment.
Do you think it will ever lead you toward true happiness?
Cherishing Moments – The Ultimate Way To Happiness
In her book, where Kristina Mand-Lakhiani talks about how we take happiness as some prize. We believe that happiness is the fruit we will receive at the end of some work or task completion. However, in reality, happiness is about cherishing each moment. Enjoying small steps and being happy for no reason is the true art. Our happiness is not someone else’s responsibility. We are responsible for it. We are responsible for how we feel at the moment. Therefore, prioritizing our happiness should be our priority.
Set Your Journey!
You must have read many self-help books, attended several lectures, or watched a lot of books. However, the journey you will take after reading #BecomingFlawesome is on a different level. Kristina Mand-Lakhiani beautifully explains each concept in detail. Throughout the book, she uses anecdotes, exercises, and beautiful examples to convey her ideas to the readers.
When are you going to be happy? When are you going to take responsibility for your happiness? Ultimately, when you start enjoying small moments in life, the process you are undergoing, and day-to-day activities, you will become happy. Associating your happiness with perfection or some ultimate goal will only hurt you in the long run. So, bring this change and experience the beauty of eternal happiness. Bring the book today and see how it changes you for good. You will start enjoying each moment of your life and will get the feeling of getting at least ten years of therapy.